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your experiences and advice on topics that range through such
diverse areas such as:
- career
advancement
- grantmanship
- publishing
- teaching
- enhancing professional visibility
- networking
with other scientists and practitioners
- overcoming
barriers to career success
This
advice pertains in particular to careers in physiology, because your
mentee might (and should) have other mentors for guidance on other needs
(such as requirements for his/her dissertation or the tenure process at a
particular university). However, it could include other topics, such as
meshing a career with a personal life and family or changing career paths.
In return, your participation in the MentorNet program should expand your
professional contacts, possibly lead to the establishment of new
collaborative opportunities, and is an important contribution to your
organization and to your profession.
Successful
mentoring involves a dynamic process whereby each participant learns to
respect and trust the partner's commitment, expertise, and individuality.
A firm commitment to the mentoring process and a willingness to invest
time and energy are the most important components for a successful
relationship. Mentoring is in many ways an elusive concept and an
individual process. Every mentor and mentee is unique because each
partner's experience, personality, and professional development track will
differ. Although both people begin the process with certain expectations,
it is often wise to consider establishing a discrete time period as a
trial basis for you and your mentee. A specific time frame will enable the
two of you to determine whether the mentoring relationship is working and
may help minimize any misunderstandings.
Below
are some general suggestions to help you in establishing the mentoring
relationship with your mentee. Since mentoring relationships come in all
shapes and sizes, what we offer are only guidelines, and you may want to
review these guidelines with your mentee to help decide which you both
think are important in your specific relationship. In addition, there are
numerous resources that address issues related to effective mentor/mentee
relationships available on this web site and elsewhere.
Suggestions
The goal of the Mentoring
Program is ideally achieved in the setting of your mentee's increasing
participation in the membership organization that is most appropriate for
his/her career (e.g., The American Physiological Society). Thus,
your mentee should be encouraged to join the appropriate organization and
attend scientific meetings (e.g., Experimental Biology) on a regular
basis. This is also a very good opportunity for you and your mentee to
interact personally, over breakfast, lunch, coffee, or dinner; at poster
sessions; or at workshops on career development or research funding
strategies. Other ways for you to interact with your mentee include email,
phone, letters, and fax. Encourage your mentee to attend, if possible,
specialty meetings in his/her discipline and other events that would help
advance his/her career, such as workshops on research funding and practice
strategies.
Take
the initiative in the relationship. Invite your mentee to talk,
suggest topics to discuss, and ask if you can offer advice. Ask about and
encourage accomplishments and ask if you can make a suggestion or offer
criticism. Your perspective on all aspects of a career in physiology is
very valuable.
Respect
your mentee's time as much as you respect your own. Be explicit about
your own needs and limits, specifying times you wish not to be disturbed
or ones that are particularly good for communication. On the other hand,
you mentee may also have teaching duties and times during particular
experiments when he/she is not available. The use of email greatly
alleviates having to set a specific time to talk.
Be
explicit with your mentee that you are only offering suggestions and
that they should be weighed along with advice received from other mentors.
You should be encouraging your mentee to seek out advice from his/her
advisor or on-site mentor as well as others, depending on the topic or
issue being discussed.
Make
only positive or neutral comments about your mentee to others. Your
mentee must trust that anything said to you will be held in the strictest
of confidence unless instructed otherwise. One never knows where a mentee
could end up (e.g., grant review board, journal reviewer, etc.).
If
your mentee is interested, consider discussing how you have been able to
balance work with personal life demands. Junior scientists and
practitioners often find this a difficult issue and set unrealistic
expectations for themselves and their personal lives. They appreciate
hearing a senior colleague's thoughts and experiences.
It
is important not to confuse positive communication with a need for
unwarranted praise or flattery. A mentor's job is not always to praise
the work of the junior colleague. In fact, mentors who do not offer
critical but constructive feedback may actually provide a disservice to
the person they are trying to help. Too often senior faculty do not offer
criticism for fear of offending. While accepting constructive criticism is
an important lesson to be learned by all junior faculty, giving it is a
lesson that senior faculty must master to become successful mentors.
When
criticism is offered, it should be followed by constructive advice for
improvement. If possible, specific examples should be offered. Try to
avoid offering advice in a way that would intimidate your young colleague
from best availing his/herself of your expertise. It’s not a bad idea to
allow the mentee to think about your comments for some period of time and
then come back together to discuss them.
If,
after a period of time, you don't believe that either you or your
mentee are able to participate in an effective mentoring relationship,
then don't be averse to discussing this with your mentee and possibly
ending the relationship. If this occurs, MentorNet can assist in placing the junior colleague in a
relationship with a different mentor who may be a better match. If the
relationship does end, if at all possible, try to end it on professional
terms. It is no reflection on either of you if a particular pair isn’t
suitable.
Based
on these guidelines your mentee should reasonably expect that you be
in regular contact, provide career planning advice, keep confidences
between the two of you, follow through on commitments, and be caring while
giving honest feedback.
Tips on
Interaction
When
setting a date for the first meeting or contact, both members of the newly
matched pair should arrange to exchange copies of their curriculum vita
beforehand, so each will have them on hand for the first discussion. The
mentee's CV is helpful for the you to begin a constructive review of the
junior colleague's career at that point and to suggest some goals for the
immediate future. Your CV provides a base with which the you can point out
key steps in you career that were particularly valuable along the career
path, such as research awards, types of grant funding, quality of
publications, service and committee appointments, etc.
Second,
the mentor should ask the junior colleague to share his/her goals for the
upcoming year as well as more long-term goals, as a starting point for
discussion.
The
exact nature of subsequent meetings, including their topic and duration,
will vary from pair to pair. For the majority of people, phone or email
will be the most effective, regardless of where the two people live. In
most circumstances, email probably will be the most effective way for
mentor and mentee to stay in touch with a minimum of formality and time
spent. However, it is important to also set aside a specific time or times
to interact during appropriate scientific meetings (e.g., Experimental
Biology), both because it may be a rare opportunity to interact in person
and because this provides the junior colleague an opportunity to network
with other scientists through your tutelage. Poster sessions and events
such as receptions or dinners are good ways for you to introduce the
junior colleague to other scientists with whom the mentee may not normally
have the opportunity to meet and interact with. However, it is important
for the mentee to understand that you have other demands on your time,
including mentoring your own students and postdoctoral fellows, during the
meeting. This is why specifying ahead of time a particular time and place
for at least one face-to-face meeting is important.
Potential
Pitfalls
There
are at least three areas that need particular attention in any mentoring
relationship.
Limited
Time - Studies have found that finding the time and energy for
mentoring pairs to get together is a great obstacle. Take advantage of
email, fax, telephone, etc., as ways of staying in touch. Email especially
allows for relatively short but more frequent contact between the
participants.
Lack
of Knowledge/Skills - After you have accepted a role as a mentor, you
may discover that there is not really the common ground between the two of
your that was expected or that the junior colleague wants assistance in an
area in which you do not feel particularly competent to advise. In this
situation, you can feel free to either contact someone else or assist your
mentee in locating others whose expertise may be more helpful for his/her
specific need. Encourage your mentee to be open to taking the initiative
to find another person to get a different point-of-view in a particular
area.
Over-dependence
- Over-dependence can go in either direction in a mentoring relationship.
However, it is not wise for a junior person to become over-dependent on
you as a mentor. It is helpful for you to encourage your junior colleagues
to have other mentors and to eventually anticipate the end of the formal
mentoring relationship. It should be everyone’s goal to eventually
become full-fledged colleagues, although it’s always nice for the former
mentee to have someone to go to for advice at any time in the future.
It
is important that both mentees and mentors always consider whether a
mentoring match may have served its useful purpose. It is better to part
company on amicable terms than to struggle with a relationship without a
firm foundation.
More
Information
For more information on the
MentorNet
program, please see their website.
See also:
Mentoring Guide for Mentors
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